Why Should I Pre-Plan?
This is a question we often find ourselves never asking. We rarely look down the road as to what is to come. It is very easy to get lost in our day to day activities and never think of the eventualities that will happen to all of us. This holds true not only for ourselves, but also for our beloved pets.
We know when we bring them into our homes that the majority of times we will far out live our pets. It definitely is not the first thing we think of as our hearts melt over their crazy antics, but in the back of our minds, we know. We know that one day they will move a little slower, eat a little less and difficult decisions will start having to be made. We never want to think of these moments, and why would you want to?
Sadly not every pet gets to make it to the golden years, sometimes they fall ill with things we never see coming. Whether it be age or illness, these times are very stressful, full of second guessing and financial strain. I learned this from personal experience when we had to make the difficult decision to spare Riley any more pain. The only option given to us that day was if we wanted his remains to be returned to us and if we wanted a clay pawprint. This was an eye opener for me, no time given to process the passing of my beloved pup.
This is why it is important to pre-plan. It is not to say goodbye before the time comes, rather it is to prepare the farewell journey on your terms. It allows for you to make choices and selections with a clear mind, not clouded from grief and unrelenting stress. Oftentimes when a pet passes, the only option we are presented with is whether or not we would like to receive remains back. There is no talk of styles of urns, pawprints (clay or ink), or even if we would like any fur clippings. Sadly when a pet passes we are left with what is returned to us, more of a final transaction than a proper memorial to a devoted confidant and companion.
If I had known then what I know now, I would have taken the time to plan out exactly how I wanted things. I would have requested a clay pawprint from both of his front paws as well as an ink print of his nose. It would have been nice to have had a choice in urn for my bestest boy, as well as having his name engraved with his “gotcha day” and final day. It is true, you do not know what you do not know.
When you pre-plan you are securing your wishes at current day costs. You can take your time and ask questions. There is no rush or pressure to make a decision, so you can actually see what all your options are.
Just like ourselves and our families, it is always best to know what our final wishes are. When making these decisions it is best to be calm and prepared with questions you may have regarding final care. We are always available to answer questions and guide you through the steps of being prepared.
